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December 16, 2024 – Being productive is not the end goal. Productivity is a means. The end is… What? To matter. To create. To take joy in the work we do. To help. To
December 16, 2024 – I don’t want to feel alone as a way of life. But sometimes feeling alone can be good. Wanted or unwanted, the feeling of aloneness can help us be
December 16, 2024 – A half-way, mumbled, uncertain No can be as harmful as a promiscuous Yes. When you know that the right answer for you to give is No, be better to
December 16, 2024 – Yes is an agreement. It’s a contract, and it’s a good idea to be careful—even hesitant—of who and what you attach yourself to in verbal contract.
December 14, 2024 – We seek approval. We often seek approval at the expense of connection: I do something that Person A will approve, meaning that Person B will not
December 14, 2024 – “We are what happens when the seemingly unthinkable celebrity rises to power.” — Lidia Yuknavitch Source: Yuknavitch, Lidia - The Book of Joan
December 13, 2024 – 🔗 I will trade you this muddy shitball for that shiny marble anniemueller.com/posts/i-w…
December 12, 2024 – Remember: Do not let fear be the dominating force of my life. Because there’s a lot to be afraid of. Real threats, not just imaginary ones. Real
December 12, 2024 – [[../_attachments/Orient your life toward comfort or growth/2025-07-02-1707-img-Orient your life toward comfort or growth.png]] There are two basic
December 12, 2024 – 🔗 Expect obstacles anniemueller.com/posts/exp…
December 12, 2024 – 🔗 Emotional buffer zone anniemueller.com/posts/emo…
December 10, 2024 – 🔗 Love your body (of work) anniemueller.com/posts/lov…
December 9, 2024 – [[../_attachments/Lowell, Nathan - Ravenwood/2025-07-02-1707-img-Lowell, Nathan - Ravenwood.jpeg]] Enjoyed this one. A middle-aged woman
December 9, 2024 – 🔗 Practice by doing anniemueller.com/posts/pra…
December 9, 2024 – 🔗 If you feel okay, feel okay anniemueller.com/posts/if-…
December 8, 2024 – One of the ways I judge a book, perhaps the most important way, is how well I remember it. Do the characters stay with me, vivid, fully imagined?
December 8, 2024 – “All immigrants and exiles know the peculiar restlessness of an imagination that can never again have faith in its own absoluteness.” I have a lot
December 8, 2024 – First, I didn’t know there was a time war but the more I think about it the more it makes sense. Second, this is a novella. A novel is long. A
December 8, 2024 – “I thought that once I got to this city nothing could ever catch up with me because I could remake my life daily. Once that had made me feel
December 8, 2024 – “Long books, when read, are usually overpraised, because the reader wishes to convince others and himself that he has not wasted his time.” —E.M.
December 6, 2024 – A heart-wrenching read, especially in these days
December 3, 2024 – 🔗 Joy is in the doing anniemueller.com/posts/joy…
December 2, 2024 – 🔗 November is over, finally anniemueller.com/posts/nov…
November 27, 2024 – 🔗 Elements of creativity anniemueller.com/posts/ele…
November 26, 2024 – 🔗 Several hundred things at a time anniemueller.com/posts/sev…
November 25, 2024 – Braved the pre-Thanksgiving crowds at Costco to pick up mac and cheese, pie, dip and chips, and wine. I have made a lot of wrong moves in life but
November 24, 2024 – People may not be persuadable by reason, and we don’t need to assume that they are. But we do have to live as if people are persuadable by love,
November 23, 2024 – 🔗 The problem with individuality anniemueller.com/posts/the…
November 21, 2024 – 🔗 Burn, build, bridge anniemueller.com/posts/bur…
November 20, 2024 – Note to self: Cancel more things. Just nope right out. Free up your time, save your energy, do less, say No more often, it’s okay, you don’t have to
November 19, 2024 – I don’t even play chess (maybe I should start) but I enjoyed this book. Might watch the Netflix series again now
November 19, 2024 – 🔗 You’re the only one anniemueller.com/posts/you…
November 19, 2024 – 🔗 Is it funny if I’m the only one laughing? anniemueller.com/posts/is-…
November 18, 2024 – 🔗 This is the cheese-o-meter I’ve been waiting for. Thanks @davidmarsden for your service
November 18, 2024 – The good news is when the battery died I was literally a block from home. And my mechanic’s quick and less than a mile away. The bad news is it’s
November 17, 2024 – 🔗 Empty anniemueller.com/posts/emp…


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