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Read this quote in James Clear’s latest newsletter:

Selfish people should listen to advice to be more selfless, selfless people should listen to advice to be more selfish. This applies to many things. Whenever you receive advice, consider its opposite as well. You might be filtering out the advice you need most.”

Source: Conor Barnes in 100 Tips for a Better Life

Made me think of something that keeps coming to mind: Men, in general, need to get the hell away from stoicism as a philosophy/approach to life. And women need to get closer to it.

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