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May 14, 2025 – Category 1: A very small set of very important things that matter very much. Don’t argue about things in this category. To argue about things in
May 14, 2025 – I have been to the bottom of the bottom of the bottom of the pit. And I’ve mapped every millimeter on the way down and on the way out. Having gone
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May 1, 2025 – White Tears, Brown Scars How White Feminism Betrays Women of Color by Ruby Hamad Pages: 304 *** The inherent privilege of whiteness in our culture
April 30, 2025 – Sometimes you’ll be full of great ideas; sometimes you’ll have to work and work to think of one thing. This is how creative work feels sometimes.
April 30, 2025 – This is the “big rocks first” principle. Or eat the frog. Whatever. I don’t like to imagine eating a frog in any circumstance, so I just go with BIG
April 30, 2025 – Let things rest. Give your subconscious time to process and solve. It’s part of the creative process. Learn, think, focus, then take a break and do
April 30, 2025 – Lots of things make you feel busy but leave you with nothing actually done. Just because you can have 20 tabs open in your browser and incessantly
April 30, 2025 – To someone besides your cat. This is called creating accountability. The hypothesis is that you’ll then be embarrassed, shamed, humiliated, and
April 28, 2025 – Authority is not an inherent right. No one gets authority by default. Authority comes because you’re put in a position or role which has authority
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April 17, 2025 – What we learn as children programs us in certain ways. These programs run subconsciously. They determine our default behaviors. I have a set of
April 17, 2025 – One way to work on resetting defaults (emotional reactions, habits, behaviors) is to choose what I want to be bad at. The thing I want to be bad at
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April 16, 2025 – I am the only person responsible for my life: my choices, the way I use my time, my perspective, the roles I allow myself to take on, the way I use
April 16, 2025 – Fear is powerful. It’s necessary, too. I won’t get rid of it but I can learn to deal with it in ways that help me live the way I want to. Avoidance
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April 14, 2025 – Sex… and fantasies: that’s what this book is all about. Sexual fantasies submitted anonymously, collected by none other than Gillian Anderson. It’s
April 14, 2025 – Author: Tax Policy Center Title: Those Making $450,000 and Up Would Get Nearly Half the Benefit of Extending the TCJA ISBN: 50278773 COOL. GREAT.
April 14, 2025 – Finished reading: Devotions: The Selected Poems of Mary Oliver by Mary Oliver 📚 After many months of being my bedside book, this one is moving out
April 14, 2025 – “Many see that in this nightmared land, language has no meaning and the work of the writer is ruined. Many see that the triumph of authoritarian
April 13, 2025 – Today’s #hikingchurch: It’s bluebell season


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