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07-12-Community community community
Community, community, community. So many questions keep leading me back to this same answer
July 12, 2024
06-28-Dying throes
Dying throes of a colonizing empire sure are ugly
June 28, 2024
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Rilke - The Man Watching
from The Man Watching by Rainer Maria Rilke *** How small that is, with which we wrestle, what wrestles with us, how immense; were we to let
June 11, 2024
Hollis, James - A Life of Meaning
Women talking is one key to ending capitalism
Capitalism needed to disparage women’s talk in order to bring itself about because women’s talk—that is, talk that is liberatory, reciprocal, and
June 7, 2024
05-16-Observed while driving
Observed while driving L to school: A young woman walking her dog. She keeps glancing at her dog with this sweet, satisfied half-smile like she’s
May 16, 2024
Robinson, Marilynne - Housekeeping
My life seemed composed entirely of expectation
I hated waiting. If I had one particular complaint, it was that my life seemed composed entirely of expectation. I expected–an arrival, an
May 15, 2024
Colapinto, John - As Nature Made Him
This one will stay with me. True story. Heartbreaking. Haunting. An infant boy’s botched circumcision leads to him being raised as a girl, alongside
May 14, 2024
Knowing is a great strength
and also a form of pleasure. — Annie Ernaux, Getting Lost
May 14, 2024
Black - Book of Night
I offer you an honorable new beginning
“I offer you an honorable new beginning. I do not guarantee its ending. Attempts fail, but not as certainly as tasks never attempted.” — Lois
May 12, 2024
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From flexibility to structure
I started freelance writing because of the flexibility. For all the years my kids were babies, and on through several years of homeschooling, I got
May 7, 2024
If my body
is currency I will spend it on myself. If my body is property I will own it myself. If my body is a place I will live in it myself. If my
May 6, 2024
Death is in the room
A few weeks ago, one of Z’s teammates lost his dad. I didn’t know the man, and I don’t know the details. But I used to see him at every one of the
May 3, 2024
Retrospective
When we visited Puerto Rico in March, the first few days I kept thinking I’d forgotten something important. It felt like I was missing something,
May 2, 2024
Hiking church
On Sundays, almost every Sunday morning, I go hiking with my friend Jenn. We have a steady little cycle now, 5 or so local trails we rotate through.
May 1, 2024
04-29-The reality that my child is graduating
The reality that my child is graduating high school in a week and moving out in a few months is hitting hard this morning. Cannot stop crying. I’m
April 29, 2024
You might be filtering out the advice you need most
Read this quote in James Clear’s latest newsletter: “Selfish people should listen to advice to be more selfless, selfless people should listen to
April 26, 2024
Wells, Martha - Emilie and the Hollow World
2024-04-08 Eclipse
I was a little bummed all the kids would be seeing the eclipse at school (and not at home with me). Then 2 of mine came down with the flu this
April 8, 2024
Zevin, Gabrielle - The Storied Life of A.J. Fikry
Kingfisher, T. - The Seventh Bride
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2024-04-04-How-to-be-the-most-powerful-person-in-the-room
Get comfortable with discomfort. If you can tolerate more discomfort than anyone else in the room, you’re the most powerful person there. If you can
April 4, 2024
2024-04-02-We-are-tiny
One of the things I like most about reality, as far as I understand it, is how all the very big things are made of very very small things. And the
April 2, 2024